I was so shy from a young age that I couldn’t be promiscuous even if I wanted to. I was just comfortable with sexuality because of how I was raised and being around people who were queer from a really young age. Maybe it was not growing up in fear of harm or ridicule because of my curiosity around sexuality but I just met people over time that allowed me to explore those areas. You have to be open to it and put yourself out there occasionally. Don’t be afraid… But living in San Francisco where sexuality is celebrated helps a lot too.