What’s the ‘whole cisgender thing’??

Wow, I’m extremely flattered! I think people like dirtyberd and I are just trying to help people be more aware of themselves sexually and to feel comfortable embracing our bodies. I’m happy you found inspiration that helped you :)

Oh yeah, I don’t know puck or Jacques personally but they run in the same circles. Lots of sex friendly queers in the Bay Area :)

well thanks for thinking well of me :) hmm well you can definitely try checking out a few friends of mine like Mickey, Coral, James and Arabelle… Of if you want to read more my friend Danny tells a lot of wonderful person stories about his work in the industry and other personal experiences Here

oh of course there was. I was teased my entire childhood for being super skinny. Plus my given name is really unconventional so I was teased constantly for that. When I was a teen I changed my appearance constantly and often kind of hid myself under clothes that were a little too big for me. I imagine what helped was being intimate with people and feeling attractive to people. I had terrible self esteem for a bunch of reasons… Now I would just say that I am comfortable in my skin and I do really love my body but I never assume that I’m just attractive to people. Plus my partner makes me feel really good about my body :)

I’d say… don’t worry about what other people think. If you just haven’t found someone who you feel comfortable with and can trust then wait till you find that person. If you are really eager to be sexual, one of the best people to have sex with is yourself. Explore your body, embrace it, and love yourself. If you can do that sex will already be awesome once you start :)

it… does the job

Thanks for the sweet words darling :)

the only thing I tag is ‘me’… but I only do it like every 6 months so plenty of them probably aren’t tagged. Any other tags aren’t from me…

Well I always prefer a good old fashion spanking. But I think it depends on what kind of pain you are in to, either thuddy or stingy. Even a nice leather belt, minus the studs, should work good. If you want something more a bit more intense, try a cane. That’ll wake you up ;) also keep in mind that some people just don’t bruise super easily..

I’ve been riding a bike for years and years but in the past year I have just been going to a park by my house and doing a bunch of core and arm exercises. I don’t really like gyms so I keep it pretty simple. Occasionally performing can be a lot of work though, like doing squats for 15-20 min while wearing a straightjacket and leather hood…

:) thanks for the kind words